What is the Blog About?

For the last few years I have been observing the relationship dramas of my wife’s sister. She is about 30 years old. I realized very quickly that she did not have any idea how to establish and maintain a relationship. She was continually her own worst enemy as man after man rejected her. After each rejection she went onto make things even worst for herself.

At times you may find parts of this blog challenging however you will soon grow into your role as your inner well being unfolds. Move at your own pace as some of these ideas will take time to develop. Blissful relationships have existed since the beginning of time and much wisdom has been built up inside us that once released takes on a totally natural feeling.

This Blog has only 36 posts, but within these posts you will rediscover the inner secret to bliss. Please start at the beginning, take the time to read them and send this link to your friends. Together we will spread bliss far and wide!

Come with me on this journey of discovery and make up your own mind on it’s of value to your life. Good things come when you know how to attract them by being good yourself. Remember good attracts good.

The Secret to Finding a Man

There are perfect partners for you everywhere. You do not need to go to bars or clubs to find them; you are meeting them all the time. So how do you attract your perfect man to start with? Here is the secret “Ask Men for Help”.

Men love to assist a woman in distress; it brings out the white knight in them. For example, there is some paper jammed in the copy machine, so what do you do? You could open the lid and poke around until you fix the problem, like never. What you do is go over to a hot male colleague and in a quiet feminine voice ask for his help. While he fixes the problem you look on admiringly with interest and in complete silence. Once he has completed the task you tell him he is totally amazing and thank him with a huge smile. He will highly likely ask you to marry him then and there.

Another example; you require something done around your apartment. You call a hot man you know and in a sweet soft voice you ask him to help. You then offer to cook him a lovely dinner in return for his wonderful help. Wear a dress, have your makeup, hair and nails done. You quietly look on with interest but never offer to help or any advice. When he has completed the task you praise him and thank him. You then serve dinner and spend 90% of the time either listening to him or talking about him. He will think he is in heaven and I guarantee he will call you every few days and ask you out.

The secret to attracting men is to simply “Be a Woman”. Dress as feminine as possible, look after your hair and nails, speech softly, smile, be helpless at man stuff and men will flock after you. Your phone will not stop ringing. Every tiny challenge is a magnificent opportunity to use your feminine power to enlist a man to join your endless list of admirers.

Since the beginning of time the male role is to provide and protect. He is fulfilled by performing this inbuilt task. A smart girl allows her man to care for her. By giving him permission to protect and provide for her she creates a strong bond with her man. If she does masculine things she is in effect saying to him “I don’t need you” so his reaction will be to withdraw from the relationship.

Beauty has no part to play in being a captivating girl. All women are capable of being feminine. Release the girl within and allow the femininity to shine. Being feminine involves you adopting a quiet soft nature. Practices being sweet at all times and never says anything bad about anyone. Pay close attention to your appearance, such as keeping your nails and hair nice. The more you adopt the role of a sweet girl the more your man will worship you. It is so simple; be a girl and he will attend to your every need.

How to Look

How Not to Look

Mr Perfect

The good news is that Mr. Perfect does exist and they are in plentiful supply. The following is a very accurate description of Mr. Perfect. He is kind, considerate, and well mannered, he puts your needs first, he treats you with complete respect, he never hurts you in any way, he looks out for you and protects you. Mr. Perfect should have an inner strength that shines when he is with you as he shows his love in the simple little everyday way he treats you.

When seeking Mr. Perfect the key thing is to look out for is 'what type of person is he’? As your relationship progresses it will be his steadfast reliability at looking after you that will keep your bond together strong.

Mr. Perfect's looks, while desirable, as not important. Clearly a physical attraction is essential but a great looking bastard who treats you badly is not Mr. Perfect. At all cost do not fall into the trap that you can change him to become Mr. Perfect, this is not possible. If he drinks too much for gambles run a mile, these things can not be fixed. The fact is that Mr. Perfect is a natural product from birth, he can not be manufactured.

Lastly, money, social status, material possessions have not part to play. Money is something you can accumulate over a life time. Money does not help a relationship in any way. A bastard with money is still a bastard.

The bottom line is “Marry only for Love”, no other factor is of any importance. If you love him beyond all and he is devoted to you endless bliss will be yours for life.

Your Behavior

While in any relationship there must be equality this does not mean that you are the same. Male and Female roles in a relationship are quite different and must complement each other. Bliss is found through a man and women forming a bond of devotion to each other. Devotions foundation is love, but devotion itself is built from trust. Your behavior must seek out ways to show your devotion to him and at all times reinforce his trust in you.

While he is strong, kind and reliable the female role is soft, quite, attentive and above all loving. It is essential that you allow your female side to shine. At all times you must remember that you are the female part of this bond. Every word, action and deed must have the wonderful female qualities of quietness, softness and love. The worst possible thing you can do is try to be "one of the boys". He is not likely to marry is best friend, he wants a wife and a wife will be his perfect female partner.

You should be quietly spoken with only kind things to say. Learn to be silent when you don't have a kind word. Never talk in a loud, aggressive or demanding tone especially to him. Have excellent manners, always ask his opinion politely. Never ever drink to much, you only make a fool of yourself and will harm his opinion of you. What you say and do must be a reflection of your beautiful feminine side, let it shine with purity.

Be completely truthful and reliable. Always call and keep him informed of any change in plan. He should know where you are at all times, so he can get hold of you. Any major event or activity that does not involve him you must seek his permission to attend. This is an opportunity for you to build his trust in you. You will find that due to the trust you have between yourselves he will never refuse you.

When you out in public together always stay at his side. Demonstrate that you are his girl and his girl alone. Hold his hand or be on his arm. Show the world that he is yours and you are his and you are proud of it. Never ever flirt or talk or act in a silly way with any other man. This is vital. If you misbehave with other men, even in a minor way, he will never trust you.

Involve him as much as possible in your life. Consult him on the day to day things happening in your life, right down to a trivial level. By asking his opinion and seeking his advice you will gain a tightly involved closeness. Always take and act on his advice. This will make him more involved and responsible for the outcome.

His love for you will be born out of your actions. Key to your actions is the trust that you build up in your relationship over time. If your actions are that of a soft, quiet and loving female he will treat you with the devotion only true love can bring.

Relationship Dynamics

Female and male roles within a relationship are distinctly different. The dynamics of a blissful relationship is that each has a complete understanding of their role and adheres to it.

The masculine role is one of leader, provider and protector while the female role is one of soft, quiet, feminine purity. These roles have been in place since the beginning of time and are naturally embedded within us.

All relationships are built and sustained on trust. The man must win the trust of his partner by his perfect behavior and by always acting in her interest. For a woman to submit to her partner she must have gained the necessary confidence from his trustworthy actions.

By adopting a purely feminine role a woman is giving him the permission to look after her. This is a natural state within men and they simply love the role of protector and provider. If a woman takes on a more masculine role she in effect shuts the man out of life. This is where a lot of relationships have problems. The woman thinks she is helping but in fact she is blocking his natural love for her.

The more feminine a woman is the more her partner will adore her. By being the submissive woman her partner will attend to her every need with utmost joy.

Your Appearance

An ideal way to involve your partner in the detail of your life and to begin creating a tight bond is to consult and include him in the way you dress and look. Men want their partner to take a pride in themselves and to put effort into their appearance. A caring partner welcomes the opportunity to have input.

The best way to you go about this is with complete honesty. You politely ask your man to get involved. You inform him that you want your look to please him and you would treasure his involvement. He will agree in a second and you can embark on wonderful journey together. A word of warning, once you agree that your appearance will be jointly agreed upon you must act on his advice, albeit with close involvement by you. You are in effect handing control to him. Below is the way my wife and I go about dressing and styling her.

First we decided on an overall style. Where ever possible you should try to dress in sexy manner. It is more feminine and shows a confidence in your appearance. My wife and I live in a large city so for my wife we have decided on a style we call Conservative Sexy.

Conservative Sexy means that clothes will be flattering, fitting, heels are high where appropriate without a hint of trashy. An example is fitting low hipster jeans with nice leather belt, plus a cotton blouse that gives a peek of tummy, either flat shoes or shoes with a 4-1/2 heels. With her hair and makeup done and her dark glass on my wife looks totally hot. She would typically dress like this during the day if we meet for coffee.

Within the overall style you need to decide on some basic looks. These basic looks are your foundation all year round must haves. For my wife these are jeans and heels, jeans and flat shoes, sporty and runners, day dresses with heels and flat shoes, evening dresses with very high heels. We also have her underwear basics with comfortable cotton during the day or causal outings. For evening she wears tiny tongs, lace bras and stay up stockings.

A recent example of our involvement together is that my wife decided she wanted to change her hair style. Knowing that any change to her appearance affected me she ask my approval which I gladly gave. We then spent about two months looking together at various style and colors. We bought hair style magazines and went through them carefully. We would see people on TV and one or other of us would point colors and styles we liked. I wanted my wife to go more blonde, which is her natural color when she was younger, and to keep her hair quite long. She wanted to go a little shorter and a little darker. We finally agreed on a light honey color and the length to be that of a long bob. We also spent some time choosing a salon as the one she had been going to she was not happy with. I insisted that she went to the top salon in the city even though it was three times the price of the salon she was going to.

Working together on your appearance is a perfect way to begin to gain the detailed closeness that is essential for a devoted relationship. A caring partner who loves you will be delighted to have the opportunity to get this close to you. You gain the opportunity to demonstrate that pleasing him is the most important thing in your life. Handled well love will blossom!

Below is a very helpful video on heels!

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Sex - When to Start

To have a hot sex life with your partner is essential. Sex bonds you together like no other part of your life. A relationship without sex is incomplete. Because sex is such an important part of a relationship, your relationship must have reached a certain point before you engage in a sexual relationship with your partner.

My strong advice is not to rush into a sexual relationship with him. An absolutely vital component of your sexual relationship is that you both must be completely faithful to each other. A devoted relationship is built on trust. Trust is born out of him knowing that you are his and his alone plus him absolutely committing to be faithful to you. Any deviation from this, even in the most minor way, will destroy the devotion you have built up and ruin your future together. You must never forgive him if his is unfaithful just he will not forgive you.

He will respect you for taking the position that causal sex is not an option for you. Explain to him that sex is very special to you and cannot just start a sexual relationship without knowing that both of you are at a point where complete monogamy between you is guaranteed. Explain to him that you would like to commit yourself totally to him in a sexual relationship and he had to do the same for you. He needs to know that by becoming his sexual partner a he is in very special place that is not easy to get to, and most certainly is impossible without commitment to be faithful from both of you.

If you simply dish out sex for him without any commitment on his behalf he will loose respect for you and your ability to reach a state of mutual devotion will be harmed. He will think “boy that was easy” and “I wonder if she will be that easy for the next guy”. These are not the foundations of a devoted life.

Once you start your sexual relationship a whole new world opens up which will give you endless opportunity to please him. The foundation of this pleasure is monogamy and without it life long devotion is not possible. Be absolutely certain that your relationship has reached a point that you have forsaken all others before you engage in sex!

All Knowing Girl

The essence of a devoted relationship is the closeness that you have with each other. This gives you an all knowing relationship with your partner. From an all knowing relationship you can meet your partners needs perfectly.

For your relationship together to become truly magic you must share every detail of your lives. It is your knowledge of the tiny detailed things that he loves and by sharing those details in your life that makes serving the other possible. You will always do exactly the right thing if you continually ask for his opinion and advice. By accepting his advice and acting on he will have the confidence to give you his honest opinion.

If you love each other beyond all and have total devotion, pleasing you partner is all that you want to do. Your happiness is born out your joint happiness, one feeds off the other until you find that you are both living in bliss. You cease to be so much an individual as a couple, where you know as much about him as you do about yourself. Such closeness to another person is a wonderful thing to have.

Therefore you must become an "All Knowing Girl", your bliss depends on it!

Weak Men

I see it all the time, weak men who allow their wife's or girlfriends to misbehave. A man who is devoted to his partner and cares enough about her, will not allow her to make a fool of herself or him. A man who allows his partner to misbehave is effective saying he does not care about her.

You should demand and expect high standards of behavior from each other. Through your devotion you both only seek to serve and please the other. Any behavior by either of you that does not meet the set standard must be quickly dealt with a put behind you. Weak men allow bad behavior to continue.

One of most tragic things about weak men is when they allow misbehaving they start a destructive cycle where the partner continues to misbehave which causes the man to withdraw from the relationship. Men who are weak with their partner go fishing or play golf or anything else which is a legitimate excuse not to be with her. This is tragic.

Another thing I see a lot is a wife that misbehaves to get attention. Never ever fall into this trap, it is very destructive. A devoted couple live is complete harmony. It is impossible to create harmony out of bad behavior.

It is my strong advice to avoid weak men. The perfect balance is a man who cares for your every need in a kind, caring and loving way however places high expectations of behaviour on you and expects you to meet that expectation at all times. He should be quick to correct you, but in loving way, and you must modify your behavior immediately. For example, I would not allow my wife to talk to me in an aggressive tone. If she did I would correct her immediately. I would expect an apology and her to stop talking that way immediately.

A man who is strong and always acts in your best interest, even when you misbehave, provides a secure place because you know he really cares about you. You must find a man who is worthy of your devoted love. Only a man who has the strength to take an interest in every part of your life is good enough for you, don't settle for a weak man!

Do Everything Together

A devoted couple would rather be with each other than anyone else. This cements their bond and gives each the opportunity to serve the other. My wife did not drive a car until she was in her 20's because I took her everywhere and she came everywhere with me, no exceptions.

A devoted man loves to look after his partner. By you being around all the time he has the opportunity to make sure that your safety and well being is being continually cared for.

By being continually with him you gain the opportunity to show him that you are his and his alone by always being on his arm or holding his hand, or even just by sitting close to him. Your excellent behavior and manners makes you a pleasure to be with.

The habit of always being there with each other will grow to a point it will feel strange and uncomfortable to be somewhere alone. Time together reinforces your devotion through the detailed interaction like a quick kiss at the traffic lights, or him holding your hand in car. It assists you to gain a complete understanding of what pleases him.

Remember a quiet, well mannered and soft feminine girl is a pleasure to be with. It gives you an opportunity for your purity to shine!

Being Sexy

Your sexual relationship with your partner is a cornerstone part of your life together. Sex gives you the opportunity to bond like no other part of your life. A relationship without sex is simply a friendship or worse a business relationship.

As I stated earlier you should not enter into a sexual relationship lightly. You must be certain that he is right for you and he clearly understands that you expect him to be completely faithful to you. Without this he is simply using you and that will only lead to problems later on. He will respect the fact that you are not some easy slut.

If he wants sex before you are ready, politely inform him of your standards. Tell him that you love sex and would love to enter into a sexual relationship with him, however you must be certain that your relationship had reached a point you could commit solely to each other. Explain to him that you don’t just dish out sex to anyone and you see it as part of your commitment to each other. He will respect you greatly and want you even more. His trust in you will be reinforced as it is special to have a faithful partner.

Once you are ready to join your partner in a sexual relationship your sole objective must be to make it white hot. The opportunity that sex brings you gives you a great power to captivate him in the ocean of pleasure that you provide. You must learn to please him which will take you some time. Unfortunately hot sex is not as easy as it looks. I will cover this topic in a latter section.

There are two key elements that must be balanced, and they are, women like romance in their sex while men like physical pleasure. As his sexual partner it is your task to teach him romantic sex while providing him with physical sex. By providing him with hot physical sex you have the opportunity to completely captivate him. If you provide him with only romantic sex he will loose interest in you.

To him sex is not about a candle lit bedroom where every little detail is perfect. For him sex is about giving him a blow job in a shop changing room, or pull down you pants and showing him your freshly shaved pussy. These are the things that will drive him wild with desire for you. You need to be constantly at his penis, roll over in bed and grab it with firm grip, reach down as squeeze it while you are kissing. He will think he is in heaven and you will have him completely under your power. No other woman on the planet will exist in his life, only you.

You can not take a half hearted approach to sex. It is essential that once you engage in your sexual relationship with him that you simply blow his mind with how hot you are. Do things like have your pussy completely shaved. Learn to master the blow job, there is nothing like sending him off with a blow job to get him hurrying back for more. Sex is an enormously powerful force that if you use it correctly can create a bond between you like no other part of your life together!

Important Times and Places

Your time together with your partner is very important. Whenever you are together you have the opportunity to strengthen the bond between you. However there are important times and places which should reserve for special moments with your partner. These times give you an excellent opportunity to show your devotion to him. Equally important is that you create complete harmony in your relationship at these times.

When you part it is important that the last few moments together are filled with love, passion, and harmony. My wife always sees me off with a huge kiss and cuddle. We have total harmony so we never part on any negative note; however any slight problem must be resolved before we part. You need to leave him is a state of mind where he can not wait to get back to you. Make absolutely sure that you part in complete harmony. Therefore your send off kiss need to be full of sexy passion. A full open mouth kiss while embracing fully, reach down as squeeze his penis, make this head spin with passion. He will think of you all day long and rush back to you as soon as he can. Never deviate from this ritual, always spend the time to bond, and create love and harmony in your relationship.

An equally important event is coming back together. You must greet him with a huge smile, kiss and cuddle. If for example you were on the phone as he enters you would immediately and politely excuse yourself from the call and rush to his arms. This bonding back together welcomes him back into your life. You must show him that nothing is more important in your life than him. You must not burden him with any problems or issues during the first 10 to 15 minutes that you spend bonding back together. This must a quiet calming period filled with love and passion. Never deviate from this ritual, always spend the time to bond, and create love and harmony when you come together.

The following advice is very Important! Create a pact that only two things happen when you are in bed together, they are sex and sleep. Never ever talk about problems, your day at work or any subject other than love and sex. Your bed must be like another world and the moment you both cross the line into that six foot square you must enter a dreamy world of passion, love and sex. The time you spend in bed is among our most important. Never taint our bed with the trivial happenings of the world. Bed is purely about feeding the passion in your lives. Bed is the most perfect place to bond your devotion to each other. Do not waste this opportunity. Tell him that you are devoted to him and you totally adore him and never deviate from this agreement.

Problem Solving

In a relationship where both are totally devoted to each other harmony resigns continually. This is because each has a complete understanding of the others needs. Each day is spent in service of the other. The more you give the more you get.

Prior to this you need a method of dealing with problems. Firstly harmony is not created by ducking problems so problems must be dealt with quickly and honestly. The best strategy is deal with the tiny problems right then and there. It is essential that you remain polite and remember to ask for a solution, do not demand one. Use for example, "Will you please not ..." You must not be aggressive or demanding. Remember your beautiful feminine side, let it shine with purity.

There is a very interesting relationship dynamic which comes into play with dealing with problems. The man is the dominant partner in the relationship and his decision must be final in any problem resolution. However a devoted man only seeks to serve, protect and act in the best interests on his partner. Therefore his decision must pass the test "Is my decision absolutely in my partner's best interest?" Provided every decision made by him passes this test harmony will reign. The man can not use this dominant position the further any agenda that is in his interest alone. For example he can not use it to push the boundaries of your relationship in regard to sex.

It must be clearly and absolutely understood by your partner that you have complete veto of any decision he might make if you feel in anyway it is not in your best interest. Use of such a veto would be very rare and you can not use your veto to misbehave, for example, to go out partying all night if he forbids you to go. You must obey a decision that he has clearly given you out of his love for you. Failure to respect his decision will do serious damage to your relationship.

In a devoted relationship such problems do not arise because of the love and total respect you have for each other. Problems are of very small nature. It is very important that problems that do arise must be dealt with immediately. For example, I would not allow my wife to talk to me in an aggressive tone. If she did I would correct her immediately. I would expect an apology and her to stop talking that way immediately. Equally if I failed to do something I had promised to do, my wife would politely but firmly correct me and I would apologies to her and correct the problem immediately.

You must between yourself create a quick and final way to deal with problems in an honest and caring way. If you always both put your partner first problems will be small, if you have any at all.

His Role

In a devoted relationship each serves the other to gain the devotion that service brings. It is a case of the more you give the more you get. A devoted relationship requires both to be completely in tune with each other so that the others every need is met. While the man is generally the dominant partner this dominance brings with it the responsibility to provide the perfect environment for harmony to reign.

At no time can the man use his dominance to advance his own agenda. It must only be used to completely protect, care for and create well being for you. He must rely on you responding through your service to him to have his needs met. The man must make decisions and take responsible for the outcomes of those decisions. His decisions must past the test "Is this absolutely in your best interest".

In your submissive role you must ask for his guidance on even the smallest of matters. When you do this you put him in a position where his must consider what is best for you and take responsibility for his decision. It also has the effect of you are finding out exactly what he wants and by you are acting on his advice you will please him greatly.

I am totally in my wife's service. I provide for her every need from emotional, physical and material. She knows through my devotion to her that I absolutely adore her, she has complete peace of mind that I completely faithful to her, we have the hottest sex life of the planet, she has not worked for 17 years and I keep her in money, fashion , gym, music lessons and anything else she needs. It is my life's focus to serve her. I am absolutely the dominant partner and she obeys my every request, but in reality she has complete control over me through her love and devotion to me.

His role is to serve you, just as your role is to serve him. Such a relationship, through its intensity, makes you feel alive. It is a wonderful place live because only love resides there.

Living Together?

Once your relationship has reached the point that you have an actively sex life it is wonderful to sleep the night together. This allows for close bonding and to show your devotion for each other. Plus staying the night enables you to blow his mind with hot physical sex. While this is all very wonderful and spending the night together is great you must not stay too often.

He must be made to understand that if he wants this level of bliss on a continuing basis and for you to be a true couple he must marry you. If the subject of living together comes up, you must state very clearly that you will only live with your husband. Be very firm on this, if you move in with him why would be hurry to marry you after that?

Total bliss is only possible when you make life long commitment to each other. The sharing of your wedding vows creates a new level of bond and only at this point can you live together. So when should you live together, that's easy, the day you get back from your honeymoon of course.

Never move in with him on a permanent basis prior to your wedding day. By all means go away on vacations together, stay at his place maybe two day a week, but move in permanently before marriage, NEVER!

Looking Hot

It is a wonderful thing for a girl to have a hot figure. The following workout is the one my wife and I have developed for her, it really works. It is not designed to get you fit it is purely designed to make you look hot.

This workout focuses on your abs and butt. My wife uses a hot machine, which is very cheap to buy; it is an Ab King Pro. You can buy one on E-Bay for $69.90. This machine really tightens your abs and gets rid of weight around the middle. My wife has 6 pack abs and this enables her to dress sexy and look great. My wife does enough reps to make her abs really hurt. Usually 3 sets of 100. Once you reach this point don't exercise again until the pain has fully gone. It is not actually the exercise that tightens your abs, it is the healing of the muscles over the next few days.

To look hot you need a hot butt. The way to get a hot butt is do squats with a set of weights on your shoulders. Place a folded towel on your neck, place the bar behind your neck, then bend at the knees till the tops of your legs are parallel with the floor then go up and down. Do three sets of 15 with as much weight as you can handle. My wife has 15 pounds each side.

Remember you are not working out for fitness, therefore you should use heavy weights (without being to heavy for you, be careful!) and do enough reps till it burns and hurts. Once you reach this point stop and don't exercise again until the pain as fully gone, usually two to three days. If you don't hurt for two days you have not worked out hard enough.

If weight is an issue, the only way the solve this is to run. Do not however get involved in running long distance. Find the biggest steepest hill and run up it and walk down it until your legs feel like they are about drop off. You must push yourself hard! Once you feel you can not carry on do 2 more. This will tone your legs and buns while you loose weight.

It will take about three months before you will really reap the benefit but once you do it will be fabulous. The good news is that this all you have to do to have the hottest body on the planet.

Two very important tips, you must stay out of the sun or wear a strong sun block while exercising. The sun is very bad for your skin and you will pay a very high price in later life for to much sun while you are young. Secondly always wear a sports bra. It is very important that you look after your breasts.

Continuous Communication

The wonderful thing about a devoted relationship is the closeness that you have to each other. Each of you is totally involved in the others life. This involvement centers on your service to your partner. You realize that the more you give the more you get.

Such a close relationship requires great communication between both partners. It is only by sharing the tiny detail of your lives that each partner can learn enough about the other to be of true service. Your communication is not about some big heart to heart question time, it is about a constant dialog where you ask your partner what he wants and informing him of your needs.

The best way to achieve this is to ask his opinion about a topic that interests you. For example, you wish to change something about your appearance. You would politely state that you thought that you might wish, for example, wear skirts this summer, and invite him to help you choose styles that he liked. He will soon tell if he thinks it is a good idea and you can both have a lot of fun designing your new look.

Through this process you both have total agreement, and therefore harmony, on what is a minor matter in your lives. Once you live your life like this all those 101 minor matters form a larger picture where total harmony reigns in your relationship.

Your attitude is very important here. Never at anytime would you go off a do something without discussing it with him and gaining his approval. By gaining his buy in you are always on solid ground and harmony will prevail.

There is no detail in your life that is too small for you to discuss with him. Seek his involvement on the smallest of decisions and bliss will reign!

Keeping Up Momentum

Once your relationship has reached the point where you are sure this is the man you wish to marry and your devotion to each other is starting to be clearly evident there is a few things you must to do to keep the momentum of your relationship flowing along.

Go everywhere together. You must always be at his side showing him and the world that you are devoted to him. This will involve go to places that are a bit uncomfortable but your devotion will be reinforced. I surfed and competed in motocross when I was younger so my wife would always come to the beach and the track and waited for hours. It was wonderful to have her there and her greeting me with a huge smile and cuddle. She never complained.

Invite him everywhere that you go so he feels completely involved. I started dating my wife when she was 16 years old and she did not gain her drivers license until she was 23. For those 7 years I took her absolutely everywhere. I did not think about it the time but looking back on it our devoted bond started at that time. My wife was a fashion model and needed to go all over town for screen tests, photo shoots and shows and I always made sure that she got there and was safe the whole time. It gave me the opportunity to be her protector and show how much I cared deeply about her. Give your man the opportunity show his devotion.

Ask his opinion about absolutely everything that is happening in your life. Talk several times a day on the phone. Always ask for his approval and never just inform him of want you are doing. Keep him totally informed of your whereabouts. For example you are going to lunch with a girl from the office, ring him and tell where you will be. Always be quiet and polite, remembering your manners, especially when you talk to him. Your speech is an opportunity to reinforce your soft feminine side and show your respect for him. By him knowing everything about you it gives him the opportunity to protect and assist you, and in doing so to show his devotion to you.

Keep you sex life white hot. A man will never stray from a woman how gives him hot sex. A relationship is not built on sex however a relationship with average or no sex is doomed. Put enormous effort in making your sex life constant and hot. Do things like completely shave your pussy and keep it shaved. There are a number of hair removal products out there. My wife uses Marzena which works well. When you are in bed your behavior should be at complete contrast to how you are other times. Normally you are a very well behaved, quiet, soft girl however in bed you should turn it this white hot sex kitten.

It is very important that you are well behaved at all times. No man wants to marry a drunk or loud badly spoken girl. He will be watching you constantly and it is your sweet devoted behavior that will capture his life long devotion, not how many JD's you can swallow.

I married my wife when she was aged 19. For the three years before that we were completely inseparable. We were constantly present in every part of each others live. We did not live together however we did have some long vacations together. The bond we formed at that time has remained super strong because we do not act any different today, we are devoted in every facet of our lives together with a bond that is build of the rules I am sharing with you.

Bliss is found in truth, honesty, gentle caring and devotion to each other. It can be yours for the asking!

Quality Counts

When ever you are with your partner make it a quality experience for both of you. For example, when you meet him don’t just peck him on the cheek, through your arms around him and give him a huge smile and kiss. When you are together sit close to him, hold his hand and show him that you love him and love being with him.

Invent little signals between yourselves where you can show your devotion. My wife always stands, sits and walks on my right hand side. This is her way of signaling that she is devoted to me without anyone else noticing.

A devoted relationship has a higher intensity than a normal couple. That intensity is driven by the fact that you are totally involved in each others lives. Make sure that you do everything you can to increase and maintain the intensity of your relationship. Normal couples over time become lazy in their relationship while a devoted couple becomes more intertwined and intense. Never take you partner for granted, it does not matter how busy you are, he must come first without exception. This intensity makes you feel alive and the buzz that you gain in the very early part of your relationship never subsides as you live constantly in bliss!

Money

I am going to break here to talk to you about money. Money has no part to play in a devoted relationship; however I will give you an invaluable lesson about money. The reason for this is that sometimes money courses friction in a relationship.

The secret to money is to “Live Within Your Income!” It does not matter how rich you are if you spend more money than you have there will be friction.

Mick Jagger was right when his sang “You can’t always get what you want, but you can if you try get what you need”. The importance of this is to set your level of need, then think clearly and carefully how you will earn enough money to meet that need. You will be surprised at how cleaver and inventive you can be.

The idea that you need two incomes is completely wrong. One smart person and earn much more than two incomes. My household costs $5,000.00 per week to operate; I have a small business and find the money without any problem. It does not matter how much money your partner earns today. When I married my wife I earned less than $300.00 per week and had no assets. Money is something that comes when you ask for it.

I am strong believer that if the man seeks to be the head of the household he must provide all the money. My advice in an upcoming section will be that when you marry or absolutely on the birth of your first child, that you must not be in paid employment again in your life. He must keep you in an agreed standard of living in complete security, reliability and stability. It is the mans role to provide. It gives him an opportunity to show his devotion and gains him the respect of his wife and family. Harmony resigns when the financial position is stable and a wife can attend solely to her husband, her own and her children’s needs. My wife has not worked for 17 years.

Your role is to support your husband to earn money but not to get involved on a day to day basis. It is a very bad idea to work with your husband. Your husband is very likely to be a very different person at work. Also you risk your relationship turning into a business one, if you are too involved. This will upset the harmony created by your devoted love. Devoted love operates on a completely different level from money and business.

Finally, do not concern yourself about money. Devoted love is where your bliss lives not in your bank balance or in any possession. Provided that you live within your income harmony will reign!

Is He Mr Perfect

Many girls are looking for "Mr Perfect" however they have no idea what he is or looks like. This is very sad, because if you look in the wrong place you will never find him. Firstly Mr Perfect is not a man with money, or a good job, or very good looking, or tall as all these are unimportant external attributes. While these things might be desirable, and it is nice if they are present, they have nothing to do with finding Mr Perfect.

Mr Perfect has the correct balance of personal qualities. It is all about "Who He Is” and not about "What He Is". It is not easy to be the man in a devoted relationship, it comes with a great deal of responsibility and not all men are up to the task. He must want to lead you and take full responsibility for the decisions that affect both of you. He must be wise enough to understand that he must make decisions that are in your best interest. He must put your well being ahead of his and all others for a lifetime.

Equally you must be certain that you are happy to be lead by this man. It takes a lot of trust in your husband to submit yourself to being totally looked after by him. You must be sure that he is capable of providing for you with complete peace of mind at all times. He may choose for his own reasons not to provide with something you want or allow you to do something that you want to do. You must have enough respect for him to accept his decision without question.

It is all about the balance, he must be strong in his dealing with the world to provide for you and protect you, while totally loving and devoted in his dealing with you. He must live his life to a high standard of behavior and insist that your behavior is of an equal standard. He must give you complete peace of mind and certainty about your life together.

Below are the wedding vows that my wife and I live by, could your man fulfil such a promise every single day for a lifetime? Your wedding rows are a code that you must live by. In our marriage we strictly adhere to every word of our promise to each other.

I ..... take you, ..... to be my wedded wife. With deepest joy I enter into my married life with you. I pledge my deepest love, my fullest devotion, my tenderest care to you. I promise to guide and protect you as long as we both shall live. I promise to treat you with patience, respect and place your interest before my own. Therefore, throughout life, no matter what may be ahead of us, I pledge to you my life as a loving, devoted and faithful husband.

I .....take you, ....., to be my wedded husband. With deepest joy I enter into my married life with you. As you have pledged to me your life, love and devotion, so I too happily give you my life, and in confidence submit myself to you as my husband. I will live first unto you, loving you, obeying you, caring for you and seeking to please you. God has prepared me for you and so I will ever strengthen, help, comfort, encourage you. Therefore, throughout life, no matter what may be ahead of us, I pledge to you my life as a loving, obedient and faithful wife.

It is very important that you have your roles completely understood before marriage. Harmony resigns in a marriage where both of you are very clear about your roles. Couples that have clear roles do not engage in a power struggle with each trying to dominate the other to get what they want from the marriage. In a devoted marriage your man lives to give you everything that you want on a continuous basis. He knows what you want because he is listening to you and considers your interest before his own. No power struggle is necessary. Never at anytime is one partner gaining at the expense of the other. Each of you is giving your utmost to the other in order to create a blissful relationship for you both. In such a relationship problems never arise.

You must be certain that your future husband understands his role is to provide and protect you, and he is delighted to take his role and is capable of fulfilling his role. Please choose carefully, your bliss depends on it!

Physical Closeness

In a devoted relationship you are extremely close to each other. You have clearly defined roles that are prefect at meeting the needs of your partner. This is achieved by constant communication about every detail of your lives and needs. Part of this closeness to each other is your physical closeness. By always being together you are able to communicate in non-verbal ways that are very powerful at reinforcing your tight bond with each other.

My wife is very practiced at this. When we are out, just the two of us, it would be rare that she is more than 6 feet away from me at anytime and most of the time we are touching is some way or other. I always open the car door for her. We always hold hands or she is on my arm when we walk. She shows her devotion to me by always staying on my right hand side. If we are walking she is on my right arm. If we are sitting, say having coffee, she always sits on my right and we pull the chairs close together so we can touch each other. She engages in a constant stream of signals that she is devoted to me. These signals are as simply as holding hands, her kissing me and her habit of staying very close. We are just like a couple that has been dating for a month. I sure people think she is my mistress because we look totally in love, and we are.

You must do everything possible to increase and maintain the intensity of your relationship. Practice the art of close physical interaction. Learn to stay in the 6 foot radius of your man. Show him that you simply adore him with your everyday actions. A devoted relationship is all about the detail of how you live. When you operate at a detail level with your man you become all knowing and from this knowledge you can meet his every need. He will adore you in return with a steadiness that will bring total harmony to you both!

Keep It Fresh

In a devoted relationship you spend every possible moment with your partner. You both love just hanging out together. You become a couple not just an individual. To add that extra fun to your time together you must work at keeping it fresh. It is easy to do same old things but the same old things do not give that extra intensity in your lives together.

Examples are going to different restaurants, cafes, movies, art galleries or want ever sounds like fun. It may not always work out but hey you are spending time together. On the other hand you may love this new experience and gain a whole new part of your lives together.

My wife and I go out to dinner a lot. We like to go to top restaurants and be totally spoilt. It gives her a chance to dress up nicely in say a little black dress and high shoes, which is great fun. We spend time choose what she will wear, generally she dresses sexy and wears very little (dress, tong and shoes). By allowing me to be involved in her preparation my wife has added a new layer of fun for both of us. I dress up also and it gives me the opportunity to treat her like a princess, which I love to do. I open the car door, walk in proudly with her on my arm, help her into her chair at the table, and hold her hand across the table, all of which gives us both a magic evening.

Learn to optimize the cost. You can have a lot of fun and go lots of places without spending much money. When we go out to restaurants we have learnt that by ordering just a main each and one bottle of wine we can have a great night out at a top restaurant at a very modest cost.

Remember to work at keeping it fun and keeping it fresh. Get him involved; try new places and things to gain the bliss of happy times together!

Its Only About Love

Central to a devoted relationship is love. Love is the only reason to be with your partner. Nothing else matters one dot. It is only through your love for each other will you enter into a blissful relationship. Bliss is a state of mind that can not be created by any external event like a new possession.

I will tell you an interesting fact. You would expect all millionaires to be happier than all cancer patients, by it is not true. If you survey both you find millionaires worried about their money and cancer patients that are happy to be alive. Happiness is a state of mind, it’s all about how he treats you and makes you feel and that feeling only comes out of love.

It is absolutely vital that you marry only for love. Love is a state of mind and leads to devotion which in turn creates harmony and with love, devotion and harmony you have bliss.

I would also like you to reflect on another important fact “You should be happy for what is NOT happening in your life”. The state of love and marriage eliminates many destructive forces that are easy to take for granted when they are not present. One of these forces is loneliness. Loneliness in your life is a terrible thing; it is never ending in its destructive power.

In a devoted relationship there no destructive power struggle as each has their clearly defined roles. Devotion is about submitting yourself to be engulfed in love. Focus on nothing but love; forget the trivial ways and happening of the world and bliss will be yours for a lifetime!

How is it Going?

How can you tell if your relationship is progressing well and what are the tell-tale signs that he is the right one? Listed below are some hints:

He serves you first. He makes sure that you have what you need before he attends to himself. This should extend to paying for everything. This is a great sign that he places your needs first and he is taking responsibility for you well being.

He has very strong lines of communication with you. You talk several times a day and always know where each other are. You talk over every detail of your ordinary daily events. By discussing everything with him and seeking his permission where needed you gain an "all knowing relationship."

He is always there when you need assistance and does not need to be asked. He will gain a sixth sense about your needs and is always right there when you need him. For example, it is raining so he drives out of his way to collect you.

He does not allow you to do anything that he considers may harm you even in a minor way, an example would be sending you off to bed if you look tired.

He does not allow you to doing anything that reflects badly on him or you, an example is he stops you drinking too much or talking loudly. This shows that he cares deeply enough to be noticing small changes in you. When he corrects you it is your opportunity to show your devotion by obeying him immediately. Don't fall into the trap is misbehaving to get attention, this is very destructive and will lead to trouble.

He buys you presents. This is especially true if he buys you clothing or lingerie. This is a control thing; he is making sure you look the way he wants. It is a great sign that he is taking responsibility for your needs.

His penis is continuously hard. It is very important that he finds you sexy. Through your hot sex you can captivate him. His penis should go hard the moment he looks at you. If it is not you know what to do the moment your get an opportunity.

There is a consistency to his behavior. He is not just a sometimes boyfriend. He is there all the time, every minute. In a devoted relationship you become a couple first and an individual second.

Building Your Trust

It takes a lot of trust in your man to submit your life to him. He must have the ability to lead with wisdom. This is a big ask of the man, it puts a lot of responsibility onto him, so you must be sure he is up to his role. It is very important that you work out this dynamic before you marry.

Firstly, and very importantly, you are not the same and you should not try to be the same. Each of you has a role to play that creates marriage bliss. His role as head of the household is to love, protect and provide with total devotion to your every need. His role is to faithfully serve you. Your role as a wife is to love, care and obey with total devotion to his every need. Your role is to faithfully love him. In your heart there is burning love, in his head is the power to protect and provide.

So how do you build this level of trust? Firstly start as you mean to continue. By understanding his role you can adopt the correct behavior that reinforces your life together in the long term.

Here are some practical steps:

Ask his opinion on absolutely every decision in your life, no matter how small. By inviting his input into the detail of your life you will gain a close bond. If you disagree with his opinion you must resolve the outstanding matter in a very quiet, polite, feminine way. If he still sticks to his opinion after you put forward your point of view, then you must obey. From this you can judge the quality of his decisions especially in the area of acting in your best interest.

Seek his assistance with anything that is at all masculine. Never change a wheel on the car; this is not girl’s work, so call him. You must be feminine at all times to give him the opportunity to show you that he can be trusted to look after you. If you do these things yourself how is he to establish his role as your provider and protector. This is very important!

When there is any event out of the ordinary or any major decision in your life you must ask for his approval. This is different from minor things where his opinion is sort. For example, you wish to visit a friend in another city. You can not just up a leave, or just inform him that you are off, you must have his complete approval. Each time his gives his permission it helps in a number of ways. You show your devotion to him. His trust in you is increased, provided that you behave to a high standard. It helps set the boundaries of what he finds acceptable behavior by you. In practice he will virtually never withhold his permission and if his does it will be for a very good reason. If he does not grant you permission then you must obey.

Do not pay for anything. His role is to provide for you. When you are married or when the first child is born you will not work again in your life. Therefore start now, when you are together he must provide everything. You need to make it clear that you expect to be kept to a high standard once you are married. In return you will have the time and energy to be a devoted wife. This will give you the time to keep yourself in shape and attend to the smooth running of the household plus pursue interests of your own (learn the piano; do charity work or what ever you are interested in).

He must clearly understand his role before you marry, which is to be devoted to you. You must allow him to fulfill his role by seeking his protection and expecting him to provide for you. Only if he lives up to his role should you marry him. A weak man is curse that you do not want to bring into your life.

Levels of Devotion

The giving and receiving of devotion in your relationship is a blissful state in which to live. Such a life together is much more intense than an ordinary relationship. Each sets out to enhance the others life by providing as much harmony, stability and pleasure as possible.

Devotion comes in many forms; however it can be characterized as three distinct levels. These are Physical, Sexual and Emotional. In a true devotional relationship these levels are in play all the time. By attending to your partners physical, sexual and emotional needs you create a holistic state of 'Well Being' for you both.

In the physical realm it is important that you both look after you bodies. There is no great magic to this. Its simply revolves around diet, exercise and sun protection. My wife and I assist each other in this area. I am her personal trainer and together we have worked out a routine that keeps her fit and her body totally hot (she is 5ft 8 and weigh 116lbs). I set for her a list of exercises to perform each day. She really enjoys being fit and hot and has the time because we have organized our lives so she does not need to concern herself about earning money. My wife ensures that we have a very healthy diet, very low in fat and high in vegetables. We go for long walks that give us quality time together and helps me retain my level of fitness (I am 6ft and weigh 190lbs). We both benefit from great health and at a physical level we have a state of well being.

Also on the physical level is money. The money game is simple. Decide on the standard of living you want, and then create a plan to earn that amount of money. Remember work is only about earning money; don’t look for bliss at work as it does not reside there. Many people into the trap that you should enjoy work, this is not necessary. Only do it for the money. At all times live within your income. Financial well being comes from these simple rules.

At the sexual level, a hot and very sexual relationship is essential. A relationship without a hot sex life is not complete, it is simply a friendship. Before marriage you must not live with your partner as he must understand that he will only get the best of you when you are married. Failure to adhere to this will mean that he will not marry you! When you do spend time together be sure make your sex white hot. There is nothing like hot sex to keep him attentive. Hot sex is an important foundation of a devoted relationship and reinforces your state of well being.

Emotional well being comes from the state of harmony in your relationship. In a devoted relationship there is no power struggle. Each of you has your clearly defined role. Your role is to be totally feminine. The feminine role is quiet, soft and submissive. The feminine role creates love and harmony in a relationship by the way you interact with your man. At all times he is the strong protector and you give him permission to protect you by asking for his assistance. Learn the skills of listening for his instruction and asking for his permission when you want to be doing something out of the ordinary. This again gives him the opportunity to care for you.

Create peace and harmony through your everyday feminine approach and well being will reign in your relationship continuously. A devoted relationship is a more you give the more you get partnership. Give yourself fully and emotional well being will be yours.

Hot Sex - How To

Hot sex is a skill that must be learned. Hot sex has very little to do with your looks, you bust size or how long your legs are. Hot sex is purely about your skill level and skill comes from your brain not your body. Any girls can be a hot lover if she understands what pleases a man. A skilled girl knows how to prepare, tease and then blow away her man.

It is important that you prepare your pussy. Go to the bathroom right before sex to prepare and lubricate your pussy. Use lots of lubricant and either your fingers or a dildo to prepare your pussy for him. When things get hot and fast later you won't suffer that first 30 seconds of pain as he drives into you. He will appreciate the smooth entry.

There are two fundamental things you must understand. These are that men are very visual and like very physical sex. These are very important so a skilled lover knows how to use these two fundamental principals to best advantage.

Men are very visual and they can be turned on by you simply acting sexy. A hot lover teases her man constantly. I strongly recommend that you completely remove your pubic hair or very least keep it trimmed and short. An attractive pussy will drive him wild with desire. To keep things visual you should create little shows to turn him on. For example, when you are alone pull down your pants, spread your legs as wide a possible and start playing with your pussy. Move you fingers from in your pussy to your mouth and back again. I guarantee he will have a hard penis in less than 30 seconds. Men love to see their partners being sexy. Every time he looks at you he will think of your sexy little shows and will get a hard. You can have him on such an edge he will get a hard on when you walk into the room. Your power to tease is one of your most powerful. It gives you the power to reduce him an addicted lap dog.

Men like their sex very physical. Women are far to gentle with men. The very worst thing that you can do is lay back and wait for him make love to you. You mind set should be more "attack that penis". Grab his penis and squeeze it with a very firm grip. When you give him a blow job take a much as you can. Move quickly, be aggressive and take control. During sex he is your play thing.

You must control the progression of the sex. You must learn to turn him on at the correct rate and for you to stay in sync with him. There is little point if he comes too quickly. You have four key ways to control him. These are to tease him, to wank him, to give him a blow job and to fuck him. You absolutely MUST learn to move freely back and forth between these techniques. Typically you would start by teasing him. Once is penis is hard you would wank him followed by blowing him. Once you felt the time was right you would allow him to enter you.

At the same time you must keep yourself in sync. You must train him to play with your pussy and make your pussy available by spreading wide at just the right time. Play with your pussy to keep yourself up with him. Pull his head to your pussy or sit on his face so he can tongue your clit. If you sense he is getting to hot move to a position where your legs are spread wider part or stop and blow his penis for a while before mounting him again. When you are finished with him he should completely incapable of moving, show no mercy, take control and fuck his brains out.

By training yourself to move seamlessly between teasing, wanking, blowing and fucking him you can gain the skills that will have him permanently wanting you. He will never stray even a glance at another woman. You will be surprised at how he will lap after you. For him having a total skilled hot lover is bliss itself. Hone your skills and use your power.

Hot Sex - Tease Him

You can have a lot of fun by keeping your man in a state of high sexual arousal at all times. All you need to do is tease him with a series of hot but very small sexual acts. He will after time look at you as the hottest girl on the planet. He will get a hard penis the moment you walk in the room. The key is to hit him with very intense but very short sexual acts. Go for no longer than two minutes, then turn it off leaving him hot with desire for you.

Firstly keep yourself hot looking by shaving you pussy. There are many great creams that remove hair, I recommend one of them. Apply the cream twice a week to stay hot.
When you are alone at home get into the practice of wearing as little as possible, for example, just a bra and pants or a dress with nothing underneath. This enables you to show off your body and flash your pussy and breasts at him.

Most importantly you must continually and actively work at keeping his penis hard. Become a hot little penis lover. When sitting together reach over and squeeze it or give him a quick wank. Get his penis out and give him a one minute blow job. In the morning before he goes to work give him a small blow job. When he come home at night you should rush up to him then kiss him and at the same time reach down as squeeze his penis. Never let up on him, keep him in a frenzied state of desire for you. Your attitude should be “his penis belongs to you, and you will have it anytime you want”.

In public you must be more careful however there is no need to stop. At every opportunity you should pull down your pants and play with your pussy while he watches. Give him a blow job in shop changing rooms. Flash your pussy at him when no one is around.

Teasing him is one of your most powerful means of reducing him to your little pet. Use it to the maximum and watch as he becomes totally transfixed on you.

Hot Sex - He Must Marry You

It is impossible to have a totally hot sex life if you are not married. You must inform him that only when you are married will be get the best of you.

NEVER NEVER NEVER move in or stay with him for more than two nights per week before he marries you. If he will not marry you then he is not devoted to you. If he is not devoted to you then he can not have the hottest of sex lives.

Give him a taste of what he has waiting for him once you are married, however he must know that to have you on a continuous basis you must be married. To give him hot sex every time he wants it without being married is making a fool of you. Being his fool is no way to enter a blissful relationship.

By strong and insist on this standard. He can not have you on a continuous basis until you are married.

Hot Sex - Hand Job

Most girls are soft, tender and like gentle romantic love making. Well men don’t like this one bit. They like hard out physical sex. Therefore to please him you must be much more aggressive with him. The last thing you must do is to lie back waiting for him to make the running. Get involved, grab his penis with a very firm grip and wank him hard out.

On a man’s penis the knob is the most sensitive and the shaft is a lot less sensitive, while the balls must be handled with care. When handling a penis get a firm grip near the base and then pull forward stretching the skin rather than your hand sliding over the skin. Pull back and forth on the shaft quite quickly.

The knob is more sensitive so must be handled a little less aggressively. Rub the knob with your hand as you move up and down the shaft. It is important to rub the entire length of the penis. For best results combine keeping is knob in your mouth and a firm grip on the shaft.

Balls are very sensitive but can be used to control him as you want. With just your thumb and fore finger squeeze with firm grip above his balls and right at the base of his penis. By pulling back and forth on his balls it is a great method of controlling is entry when you are giving him a blow job.

You must learn the skill of handling a penis. If in doubt squeeze harder as he will soon tell you if it hurts. Be at his penis all the time, at every opportunity no matter how short or where you are. He will simply adore you for it.

Hot Sex - The Blow Job

The ability to give a really hot blow job is an important skill. You must practice until you get in right. The blow job is important because you are able to give him a quick blow job almost anywhere and at any time. A hot blow job is all about your skill level, so here is how to do it.

To give a hot blow job there is a large number of factors that you have to get right, so let's start with the fundamental techniques. There are two distinct methods and you must master both and be able to instantly flow back and forth between them. These are hands free where you use only your mouth and with hands where you combine your hand and mouth. It is also important to be square on directly in front of him and to have your body in a position to enable you to lift your head up to straighten your neck out. The sexiest position is to be on your knees with your legs spread wide apart. Try to look up as much as possible. Another tip is to warm the inside of your mouth by rinsing it with hot water.

When the penis is soft hands free is the only method you should use. Take the entire penis in your mouth, press until you lips are hard against his stomach, them work your way out until only the knob is in your mouth. Remember his knob is by far the most sensitive part so by working the knob combined with taking the whole penis in your mouth will get best results. It will not be long both his penis is hard as a rock.

Once his penis is truly hard you will be unable to take the whole length into your mouth. This is where you should get firm grip of his penis at the base and work the knob and the top of the penis with your mouth and tongue. Then swap between this method and the hands free method. When using the hands free method on a hard penis it is best to open your mouth wide when going towards him so you can get as much length in as possible them wrap you lips around his penis as you pull away. Once you get to the knob give it a little tickle with your tongue.

Overall you should be more aggressive, squeeze him firmer and go deeper than you may at first think. Practice really going after his penis with fast, hard and aggressive actions. It is better go hard for two minutes than be gentle for twenty minutes. Men like their sex to be very physical, so do not hold back.

The blow job can be used in at great number of times and in all sorts of places. It is the perfect method of keeping him in a state continuous desire for you. Mostly blow jobs should be short, maybe two minutes. Use them to send him of the work or to welcome him home, in the car, in shop changing booths, and of course just before hot sex. The blow job is the ultimate tease and gives you a lot of power over him, use it to full effect!

A interesting video on Blow Jobs

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aL7GzCMnwGg

Hot Sex - Communicate

During all sexual interaction you must give him lots of feedback about how you are feeling. He is not a mind reader and will not perform as well as you might like if he has no idea what you want.

At no time should you be a passive partner who just lies down and has everything done to you. Get involved, mostly with your own satisfaction. Tell him what you need; show him how to do it, do it to yourself.

It is important that you learn to stay synchronized as you both progress to a climax. You must learn how to speed things up and to slow them down as each of you progresses. You can only achieve this through communication.

Men want hot lovers who get involved with passionate physical love making. Mentally and physical bang his brains out. Leave him completely exhausted and you will know you have done well.

An Interesting Video Link

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ppjCRlFhT64

Your Dual Self

On one hand you are a wonderfully mannered girl who knows how to behave in public and when you are together. However the moment that you get the chance you instantly transform into an ultra-sexy lover that goes after his penis at every opportunity. Preserve your privacy at all cost so you must choose your opportunities carefully.

You have the power to keep him in a permanent state of high arousal which will have him continuously lusting after you. You must be able to switch between these two personalities instantly.

You step out of a restaurant, there is no-body around, and so you reach down and squeeze his penis. You are buying a new pair of jeans; you invite him to look at them in the store changing booth. While in there you quickly pull down his pants and give him a blow job. You are in the car together, you pull down your pants, get some lubricant from your bag and drive you fingers deep inside and play with your clit till you come.

Learn to be ultra-sexy just at the right moment and you will blow his mind with desire for you. Just as you turn it on you can stop and become you normal devoted self. The contrast will have him worshiping you.

Getting the Basics Right

There are a few basics that you must get right to keep your relationship on track. These are:
You must not live together, except for very short periods, until you are married. He must be told “I will only live with my husband”. Back this statement up with action, as failure to adhere this principal will result in him never asking for you to be his bride.

Show him that you are his girl alone. Always stay at his side, rather than talk with the other girls. Sit very close to him and touch him as much as possible. Try to be as quiet as possible when he is with his friends. Never flirt with other men. As his wife he will expect you to be 100% loyal to him.

It is very important that you are the feminine part of the relationship. The more that you allow your feminine nature to shine the more he will commit to looking after you. Always speak to him is soft feminine tones that allows your purity to shine. Never raise your voice at him. Learn to be quiet if you both have a kind word to say. Use nice manners and polite conversation. Show him that you are a girl with your quiet gentle nature.

Dress only in clothes that he approves of. Work with him on your appearance. Ask his opinion on what you should wear when going out. If his is a leader he will instantly tell his preference.
If you have a problem, solve it immediately with a quiet and polite request. Respect his decision and do as he has requested. Make that the end of the matter, never argue back.

You must remain constant in your behavior and you will find him serving your every need in no time.

I Will Love You Till I Die

I am going to let you have a quick look inside a devoted marriage. If you have never been married or have a bad marriage you will have not idea of just how wonderful a devoted marriage is. A marriage is completely different from going out with someone or just living together.

Some people wrongly think that once you are married that you slowly drift out of love and become just friends or even worse just business partners. This is completely wrong. You know that feeling you have when you first meet a gorgeous guy, that head spinning buzz, a devoted marriage give you that light headed buzz all the time. When we meet we giggle and kiss passionately. When we are alone we are almost always engaged in some sort of sex. A devoted marriage is hot.

Due to the intense closeness and absolute honesty we know everything that is going on each others lives. There is absolutely no power struggle where each others interests compete for attention. In a devoted marriage you have known rules that you both adhere to. Each knows exactly what is expected and always meets that obligation. My wife simply asks politely for what she requires and I always provide it for her. She fully understands that a polite request will gain far more and an aggressive demand. Problems are dealt with instantly while they are tiny so nothing ever progresses to an argument. A devoted marriage has complete harmony.

Marriage is permanent, it is without end, it is for a lifetime. This truth gives you the gift of certainty. All humans gain a sense of well being from certainty. In a devoted marriage a lot of effort is put into creating certainty. Certainty gives that warm peaceful feeling that only marriage can deliver.

I will love you till I die applies in devoted marriage. That love is no ordinary love because a devoted couple will simple not allow their love to be ordinary. A devoted marriage is filled with passion, has white hot sex, both live in total harmony and a permanent sense of certainty. It is a mind blowing life to be married.

Footnote: I firmly believe in marrying young. I think to perfect age to marry is between 19 and 23. If you marry young and don’t have children for at least the first 5 years you will experience some to the most special times of your life. If you follow devoted marriage principals you will create a bond that we serve you for life.