Sunday, April 08, 2007

Your Behavior

While in any relationship there must be equality this does not mean that you are the same. Male and Female roles in a relationship are quite different and must complement each other. Bliss is found through a man and women forming a bond of devotion to each other. Devotions foundation is love, but devotion itself is built from trust. Your behavior must seek out ways to show your devotion to him and at all times reinforce his trust in you.

While he is strong, kind and reliable the female role is soft, quite, attentive and above all loving. It is essential that you allow your female side to shine. At all times you must remember that you are the female part of this bond. Every word, action and deed must have the wonderful female qualities of quietness, softness and love. The worst possible thing you can do is try to be "one of the boys". He is not likely to marry is best friend, he wants a wife and a wife will be his perfect female partner.

You should be quietly spoken with only kind things to say. Learn to be silent when you don't have a kind word. Never talk in a loud, aggressive or demanding tone especially to him. Have excellent manners, always ask his opinion politely. Never ever drink to much, you only make a fool of yourself and will harm his opinion of you. What you say and do must be a reflection of your beautiful feminine side, let it shine with purity.

Be completely truthful and reliable. Always call and keep him informed of any change in plan. He should know where you are at all times, so he can get hold of you. Any major event or activity that does not involve him you must seek his permission to attend. This is an opportunity for you to build his trust in you. You will find that due to the trust you have between yourselves he will never refuse you.

When you out in public together always stay at his side. Demonstrate that you are his girl and his girl alone. Hold his hand or be on his arm. Show the world that he is yours and you are his and you are proud of it. Never ever flirt or talk or act in a silly way with any other man. This is vital. If you misbehave with other men, even in a minor way, he will never trust you.

Involve him as much as possible in your life. Consult him on the day to day things happening in your life, right down to a trivial level. By asking his opinion and seeking his advice you will gain a tightly involved closeness. Always take and act on his advice. This will make him more involved and responsible for the outcome.

His love for you will be born out of your actions. Key to your actions is the trust that you build up in your relationship over time. If your actions are that of a soft, quiet and loving female he will treat you with the devotion only true love can bring.

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