Weak Men

I see it all the time, weak men who allow their wife's or girlfriends to misbehave. A man who is devoted to his partner and cares enough about her, will not allow her to make a fool of herself or him. A man who allows his partner to misbehave is effective saying he does not care about her.

You should demand and expect high standards of behavior from each other. Through your devotion you both only seek to serve and please the other. Any behavior by either of you that does not meet the set standard must be quickly dealt with a put behind you. Weak men allow bad behavior to continue.

One of most tragic things about weak men is when they allow misbehaving they start a destructive cycle where the partner continues to misbehave which causes the man to withdraw from the relationship. Men who are weak with their partner go fishing or play golf or anything else which is a legitimate excuse not to be with her. This is tragic.

Another thing I see a lot is a wife that misbehaves to get attention. Never ever fall into this trap, it is very destructive. A devoted couple live is complete harmony. It is impossible to create harmony out of bad behavior.

It is my strong advice to avoid weak men. The perfect balance is a man who cares for your every need in a kind, caring and loving way however places high expectations of behaviour on you and expects you to meet that expectation at all times. He should be quick to correct you, but in loving way, and you must modify your behavior immediately. For example, I would not allow my wife to talk to me in an aggressive tone. If she did I would correct her immediately. I would expect an apology and her to stop talking that way immediately.

A man who is strong and always acts in your best interest, even when you misbehave, provides a secure place because you know he really cares about you. You must find a man who is worthy of your devoted love. Only a man who has the strength to take an interest in every part of your life is good enough for you, don't settle for a weak man!