Levels of Devotion

The giving and receiving of devotion in your relationship is a blissful state in which to live. Such a life together is much more intense than an ordinary relationship. Each sets out to enhance the others life by providing as much harmony, stability and pleasure as possible.

Devotion comes in many forms; however it can be characterized as three distinct levels. These are Physical, Sexual and Emotional. In a true devotional relationship these levels are in play all the time. By attending to your partners physical, sexual and emotional needs you create a holistic state of 'Well Being' for you both.

In the physical realm it is important that you both look after you bodies. There is no great magic to this. Its simply revolves around diet, exercise and sun protection. My wife and I assist each other in this area. I am her personal trainer and together we have worked out a routine that keeps her fit and her body totally hot (she is 5ft 8 and weigh 116lbs). I set for her a list of exercises to perform each day. She really enjoys being fit and hot and has the time because we have organized our lives so she does not need to concern herself about earning money. My wife ensures that we have a very healthy diet, very low in fat and high in vegetables. We go for long walks that give us quality time together and helps me retain my level of fitness (I am 6ft and weigh 190lbs). We both benefit from great health and at a physical level we have a state of well being.

Also on the physical level is money. The money game is simple. Decide on the standard of living you want, and then create a plan to earn that amount of money. Remember work is only about earning money; don’t look for bliss at work as it does not reside there. Many people into the trap that you should enjoy work, this is not necessary. Only do it for the money. At all times live within your income. Financial well being comes from these simple rules.

At the sexual level, a hot and very sexual relationship is essential. A relationship without a hot sex life is not complete, it is simply a friendship. Before marriage you must not live with your partner as he must understand that he will only get the best of you when you are married. Failure to adhere to this will mean that he will not marry you! When you do spend time together be sure make your sex white hot. There is nothing like hot sex to keep him attentive. Hot sex is an important foundation of a devoted relationship and reinforces your state of well being.

Emotional well being comes from the state of harmony in your relationship. In a devoted relationship there is no power struggle. Each of you has your clearly defined role. Your role is to be totally feminine. The feminine role is quiet, soft and submissive. The feminine role creates love and harmony in a relationship by the way you interact with your man. At all times he is the strong protector and you give him permission to protect you by asking for his assistance. Learn the skills of listening for his instruction and asking for his permission when you want to be doing something out of the ordinary. This again gives him the opportunity to care for you.

Create peace and harmony through your everyday feminine approach and well being will reign in your relationship continuously. A devoted relationship is a more you give the more you get partnership. Give yourself fully and emotional well being will be yours.