Keep It Fresh

In a devoted relationship you spend every possible moment with your partner. You both love just hanging out together. You become a couple not just an individual. To add that extra fun to your time together you must work at keeping it fresh. It is easy to do same old things but the same old things do not give that extra intensity in your lives together.

Examples are going to different restaurants, cafes, movies, art galleries or want ever sounds like fun. It may not always work out but hey you are spending time together. On the other hand you may love this new experience and gain a whole new part of your lives together.

My wife and I go out to dinner a lot. We like to go to top restaurants and be totally spoilt. It gives her a chance to dress up nicely in say a little black dress and high shoes, which is great fun. We spend time choose what she will wear, generally she dresses sexy and wears very little (dress, tong and shoes). By allowing me to be involved in her preparation my wife has added a new layer of fun for both of us. I dress up also and it gives me the opportunity to treat her like a princess, which I love to do. I open the car door, walk in proudly with her on my arm, help her into her chair at the table, and hold her hand across the table, all of which gives us both a magic evening.

Learn to optimize the cost. You can have a lot of fun and go lots of places without spending much money. When we go out to restaurants we have learnt that by ordering just a main each and one bottle of wine we can have a great night out at a top restaurant at a very modest cost.

Remember to work at keeping it fun and keeping it fresh. Get him involved; try new places and things to gain the bliss of happy times together!