Friday, April 06, 2007

Hot Sex - How To

Hot sex is a skill that must be learned. Hot sex has very little to do with your looks, you bust size or how long your legs are. Hot sex is purely about your skill level and skill comes from your brain not your body. Any girls can be a hot lover if she understands what pleases a man. A skilled girl knows how to prepare, tease and then blow away her man.

It is important that you prepare your pussy. Go to the bathroom right before sex to prepare and lubricate your pussy. Use lots of lubricant and either your fingers or a dildo to prepare your pussy for him. When things get hot and fast later you won't suffer that first 30 seconds of pain as he drives into you. He will appreciate the smooth entry.

There are two fundamental things you must understand. These are that men are very visual and like very physical sex. These are very important so a skilled lover knows how to use these two fundamental principals to best advantage.

Men are very visual and they can be turned on by you simply acting sexy. A hot lover teases her man constantly. I strongly recommend that you completely remove your pubic hair or very least keep it trimmed and short. An attractive pussy will drive him wild with desire. To keep things visual you should create little shows to turn him on. For example, when you are alone pull down your pants, spread your legs as wide a possible and start playing with your pussy. Move you fingers from in your pussy to your mouth and back again. I guarantee he will have a hard penis in less than 30 seconds. Men love to see their partners being sexy. Every time he looks at you he will think of your sexy little shows and will get a hard. You can have him on such an edge he will get a hard on when you walk into the room. Your power to tease is one of your most powerful. It gives you the power to reduce him an addicted lap dog.

Men like their sex very physical. Women are far to gentle with men. The very worst thing that you can do is lay back and wait for him make love to you. You mind set should be more "attack that penis". Grab his penis and squeeze it with a very firm grip. When you give him a blow job take a much as you can. Move quickly, be aggressive and take control. During sex he is your play thing.

You must control the progression of the sex. You must learn to turn him on at the correct rate and for you to stay in sync with him. There is little point if he comes too quickly. You have four key ways to control him. These are to tease him, to wank him, to give him a blow job and to fuck him. You absolutely MUST learn to move freely back and forth between these techniques. Typically you would start by teasing him. Once is penis is hard you would wank him followed by blowing him. Once you felt the time was right you would allow him to enter you.

At the same time you must keep yourself in sync. You must train him to play with your pussy and make your pussy available by spreading wide at just the right time. Play with your pussy to keep yourself up with him. Pull his head to your pussy or sit on his face so he can tongue your clit. If you sense he is getting to hot move to a position where your legs are spread wider part or stop and blow his penis for a while before mounting him again. When you are finished with him he should completely incapable of moving, show no mercy, take control and fuck his brains out.

By training yourself to move seamlessly between teasing, wanking, blowing and fucking him you can gain the skills that will have him permanently wanting you. He will never stray even a glance at another woman. You will be surprised at how he will lap after you. For him having a total skilled hot lover is bliss itself. Hone your skills and use your power.

2 comments:

Ella said...

Thanks for writing this.

Cindy said...

There are many other skills and techniques can be used to attract your the other half.