Continuous Communication

The wonderful thing about a devoted relationship is the closeness that you have to each other. Each of you is totally involved in the others life. This involvement centers on your service to your partner. You realize that the more you give the more you get.

Such a close relationship requires great communication between both partners. It is only by sharing the tiny detail of your lives that each partner can learn enough about the other to be of true service. Your communication is not about some big heart to heart question time, it is about a constant dialog where you ask your partner what he wants and informing him of your needs.

The best way to achieve this is to ask his opinion about a topic that interests you. For example, you wish to change something about your appearance. You would politely state that you thought that you might wish, for example, wear skirts this summer, and invite him to help you choose styles that he liked. He will soon tell if he thinks it is a good idea and you can both have a lot of fun designing your new look.

Through this process you both have total agreement, and therefore harmony, on what is a minor matter in your lives. Once you live your life like this all those 101 minor matters form a larger picture where total harmony reigns in your relationship.

Your attitude is very important here. Never at anytime would you go off a do something without discussing it with him and gaining his approval. By gaining his buy in you are always on solid ground and harmony will prevail.

There is no detail in your life that is too small for you to discuss with him. Seek his involvement on the smallest of decisions and bliss will reign!