Being Sexy

Your sexual relationship with your partner is a cornerstone part of your life together. Sex gives you the opportunity to bond like no other part of your life. A relationship without sex is simply a friendship or worse a business relationship.

As I stated earlier you should not enter into a sexual relationship lightly. You must be certain that he is right for you and he clearly understands that you expect him to be completely faithful to you. Without this he is simply using you and that will only lead to problems later on. He will respect the fact that you are not some easy slut.

If he wants sex before you are ready, politely inform him of your standards. Tell him that you love sex and would love to enter into a sexual relationship with him, however you must be certain that your relationship had reached a point you could commit solely to each other. Explain to him that you don’t just dish out sex to anyone and you see it as part of your commitment to each other. He will respect you greatly and want you even more. His trust in you will be reinforced as it is special to have a faithful partner.

Once you are ready to join your partner in a sexual relationship your sole objective must be to make it white hot. The opportunity that sex brings you gives you a great power to captivate him in the ocean of pleasure that you provide. You must learn to please him which will take you some time. Unfortunately hot sex is not as easy as it looks. I will cover this topic in a latter section.

There are two key elements that must be balanced, and they are, women like romance in their sex while men like physical pleasure. As his sexual partner it is your task to teach him romantic sex while providing him with physical sex. By providing him with hot physical sex you have the opportunity to completely captivate him. If you provide him with only romantic sex he will loose interest in you.

To him sex is not about a candle lit bedroom where every little detail is perfect. For him sex is about giving him a blow job in a shop changing room, or pull down you pants and showing him your freshly shaved pussy. These are the things that will drive him wild with desire for you. You need to be constantly at his penis, roll over in bed and grab it with firm grip, reach down as squeeze it while you are kissing. He will think he is in heaven and you will have him completely under your power. No other woman on the planet will exist in his life, only you.

You can not take a half hearted approach to sex. It is essential that once you engage in your sexual relationship with him that you simply blow his mind with how hot you are. Do things like have your pussy completely shaved. Learn to master the blow job, there is nothing like sending him off with a blow job to get him hurrying back for more. Sex is an enormously powerful force that if you use it correctly can create a bond between you like no other part of your life together!